We’ve all been there. In the early stages of a relationship everything is new and fresh so of course the sex is amazing but as we get more settled into a relationship, it can become a bit stagnant. You love your partner but you want some excitement and to inject a bit of spice into your sex life. Once upon a time it wasn’t the done thing for women to be openly ‘into’ sex but thankfully attitudes have changed and now sexually pretty much anything goes. So check out our 5 ways to spice up your sex life.
1. Roleplaying
Dressing up and playing a character is a great way to explore sexual fantasies. Try being a nurse and patient, a maid and master or any other set of characters that floats your boat.
2. More Foreplay
Foreplay can tend to be overlooked as you get deeper into a relationship especially if you have hectic jobs or small children. How about spending 20 minutes before the main act exploring each others bodies. trust me, after that much foreplay the sex will be amazing.
3. Utilise Tech
Why not try sending your other half a sexy text to get him worked up before he comes home. Don’t send it too long before he’s due home though as he may not actually get any work done. The braver ones out there might wanna send him a little photo to show what is waiting for him at home. We’re talking sexy here though not pornographic.
4. Massage
A long sensual massage can do wonders for your libido and for your partners. Why not try using some fancy massage oil and giving your partner a deep massage along his back and get him to do the same for you.
5. Sensualise Your Setting
As humans we are very visual beings and our environment can have an effect on how we are sexually so turn your bedroom into somewhere that is conducive for lovemaking. Light some scented candles, place rose petals on the bed, dim the lights and enjoy yourselves.
But most of all just have fun! Add your own tips in the comment box below.
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